ZwischenInnen | InSpace - A Practice for Relationships.
I believe
connection with yourself
comes before
connection with each other.
Love feels different.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
When you have lost the thread to yourself
You still believe, a tiny little bit, you can manage that, too.
All you say is "I am fine", and it is actually true.
You need a bit too long to notice it has been way too much.
You really want to give, and it feels like it is being taken away.
Every door you enter, you leave a part of you behind.
When the silence between you rings too loud
It hasn't yet begun, and you know how it ends.
What made your heart beat faster, now makes it stop.
You really need to talk, and there is nothing to talk about.
You keep walking in circles, and someone always stays behind.
There is always a reason to show up
too late.
Look inwards, step forwards.
WHAT CAN CHANGE - AND WHAT WILL STAY
Not who you are - but how
Some come because the differences feel like no way out.
Some come because they no longer recognize themselves - and don't know the way at all.
Both are the beginning.
For You
You sense what is inside of you - and use it as a source.
You know your patterns - and you can influence how they run.
You know your boundaries and how to set them - loving yourself, respecting others.
You recognize your needs and can satisfy them with full presence and flexibility.
You get to see the moment when you can freely choose.
Together
You know your strengths and how to build on them.
You rediscover your differences and learn to read them adequately.
You understand your dynamic, and can react before it takes over.
You build the reality, where the connection is conscious, free - and fun.
You learn to share joy and frustration alike - and use it as a power that keeps you going.
Closer to yourself, closer to each other.
Support for different relationship contexts
For you
You are functioning, but you no longer feel like yourself. Whether it's a personal crisis, alife transition or the question "Who am I without everyone else's expectations?" - here you will find the space to land safely within yourself again.
You will learn to see you.
Neurodivergent relationships
When standard advice doesn't work for you. In a world built for neurotypical brains, we find your own unique logic. No blame, no pathologizing - just real translation help for your daily life and how you want to live it.
For couples
From fighting against or past each other, to finding your way back together. We don't just look at what you fight about, but how your dynamics formed and what it's trying to protect. No one has to give themselves up to make this work.
For families
When everyday family life becomes a struggle.
We look beyond the "difficult" behavior to uncover the underlying needs. For families with neurodivergence, we find ways out of overwhelm toward a home that feels safe for everyone in it.
ÜBER MICH
When you feel lost,
I meet you where you are.
Not because I know the way. But I know how to find it.
Many believe, relationships fall apart when people stop listening to each other.
What I see is they drift because we stopped listening to ourselves.
I spent years in a corporate life I genuinely enjoyed. Yet I felt disappointed enough to wonder whether the disappointing part was me.
That question led me here. To the work I love.
I am a psychologist and systemic couples therapist. I help people hear themselves so they know what they really want to talk about.
If that sounds familiar, stay awhile.